A small penis isn’t something to brag about.
Many men wish they had bigger penises, and they fear that they’re not able to satisfy their partner. The good news is that small dick problems can be overcome. Proper sex positions can help you overcome your shortfalls, and it’s a lot of fun to experiment.
There are also ways to improve these “shortcomings,” but we’ll talk more about that later.
So, is your penis small?
Let’s find out.
What Is Considered a Small Penis?
Do you have a small penis? She may keep telling you “no,” but she might be trying to be nice and not hurt your feelings. A small penis isn’t something that will lighten up a man’s face with pride after all.
You may have an average penis, or your penis may be bigger than average.
A study in the Journal of Urology goes through the data, and used a group of 80 men to determine what the average size is for a man.
The averages were:
- 3 inches flaccid
- 5.7 inches erect
So, if you’re under the 5.1” range, you’re on the slightly small size. When considering surgical penile lengthening, it’s not recommend for men that are 3” or bigger when erect. Microphallus treatment for adults, or treatment for micro penises, may include hCG pills or other methods to help the penis grow.
But when looking outside of the study, you’ll find that the average length of a penis is within the 4.7,” and 6.3” range. The circumference of a flaccid penis is 3.5” to 3.9,” and 4.7” when erect.
So, there you have it.
Are you small or not?
If you haven’t measured your penis before, it’s simple:
- Place a tape measure on the groin at the top of the penis shaft flush against the skin
- Measure to the tip of your erect penis
If you have a lot of pubic hair in the way, ensure that you push it back as much as possible to get flush with the skin.
What many people don’t know is that pubic hair often covers up some of the length of the penis, and this is why you see so many men with shaved penises and pubic hair in the porn industry – it makes your penis instantly bigger.
Small Penis Sex 101: Best Sex Positions for Small Penis Men
Your penis may be small, but the right positions can help you hit her G-spot. The good news is that this infamous spot is just 3 inches deep inside of the vagina, so you can hit it with the right positioning.
Don’t view this as a chore or something to be ashamed of when having sex.
Your partner will enjoy trying new positions – unless they’re plain Janes – and you’ll find them more enjoyable in most cases.
And, the positions that we recommend trying are:
1. Doggy Style
The famous doggy style puts you in full control. This position is a lot of fun, and women love it. No matter your size, you’ll feel just a bit larger to your partner, and this may have something to do with pressure.
So, to get started:
- Your partner should be on their hands and knees
- You’ll enter your partner from behind
And if you feel like standing, your partner can enter the same position on a bed or surface that allows for proper alignment (it’s tricky depending on the height of the surface).
If you want to try a variation of this position, you can move into the hound position.
In this position, the woman may lower her upper body by putting her forearms on the floor, or a person can kneel over the bed or a couch. This is just a slight variation, but it’s easier on the shoulders and is often more comfortable.
You can place pillows under the arms or knees for added comfort.
2. Reverse Cowgirl
This is a position that men love, and it’s simple, too.
- Men lay flat on the bed or on the floor
- Partners sit on the man facing their feet (you’ll have a nice view of your partner’s rump)
- Insert the penis, and start grinding
It’s a simple position, but your partner will need to take complete control. This position puts massive stimulation on the clit, and as you grind forward and back, you’ll notice how it hits just the right spot.
3. X-Rated
The X-Rated position is a new one for me, but it’s a hell of a time. This position is a little different than you would expect, and it allows for extremely deep penetration, too. The position requires:
- Men to lay flat on their back
- Women to lay facing the man’s feet
- Insert the penis
The man will grab onto their partner’s backside, while the partner will often wrap their arms under the man’s legs and around to pull up as the man pulls down to complete the motion. It sounds tricky, and it is, but once you give it a try, you’ll figure it out pretty quick.
4. Sexy Spoon
You know those times when you spoon with your partner? Well, you’re going to mimic this position, but you’ll be naked and enter the woman from behind. If you’ve noticed, if you enter a woman from the back, you’ll have an easier time hitting her spot.
The position narrows the vaginal canal, so it feels tighter for the man and more filling for the woman.
A few key points of this position are:
- Curl in a ball, almost with knees intertwined
- The woman’s legs should be like so:
- The bottom leg against the mattress
- The top leg of the man’s top leg
Essentially, the man’s knees will be between his partner’s legs in this position.
5. Splitting Bamboo
This is likely a position that you’ve tried before, or you’ve wanted to try. This position requires your partner to lay flat on their back. The woman will:
- Place on leg on the man’s shoulder.
- The man will sit on the woman’s thigh that is flat against the bed.
- Holding the leg, the man will insert himself.
Women can try and experiment with their bottom leg a bit. Some women prefer to keep their bottom leg bent so that the heel on their foot is near their butt. Men will need to pay special attention to the position to ensure that it doesn’t cause any discomfort to their partner.
The higher the man lifts the leg, the deeper he will be able to penetrate the woman.
6. Butterfly
The final position on our list is the butterfly. This sounds a lot more difficult than it is, but it’s simple and allows for very deep penetration. To get into this position:
- The woman lays flat on a table or higher surface
- The man stands up and places the woman’s legs on his shoulder
- The woman lifts her bottom to insert
The man will keep his hands under the woman’s bottom to hold her up and offer support. I highly recommend that the woman place a pillow under her upper back/neck to alleviate some of the pressure.
If you want to allow for deeper penetration, she’ll need to close her thighs tightly together while you thrust. This will allow for a tighter feeling during sex and will allow for deeper penetration, too.